Sunday, June 13, 2010

head towards the BIG neon sign.

Recently, I have been taking a hard look at life and re-evaluating those that I have involved in mine. I have the tendency to surround myself with those that have issues. I have always sought out to "fix" people. I keep those around me that seem to have a negative outlook on life - that manipulate, who are vindictive, and selfish. Many times, they didn't embody these qualities in the beginning; it slowly crept out of the dark once they became comfortable. Recently, I have made the executive decision that I no longer have a need or want for these people in my life. These people will have their opinions about how I live my life, how I raise my daughter, and how my time is spent - to those people...live your own life. Spending your time and effort judging my character is worthless to you. You won't benefit from it and I can bet that it will only upset you because I won't change for you, nor will I base my decision making process on you. I live for God, my daughter, my family, and my friends. If you don't somehow fit under any of those categories - I'm holding the door wide open for you; you may exit now.

1 comment:

selmarine said...

Well said, my friend.